Change the Ink

If you are trying to print something and the paper comes out blank, you have a few choices:

  • Assume you “never” get technical things!
  • Assume the printer is broken.
  • Assume there is no paper.
  • Assume there is no ink.

It’s good to have a few assumptions against which you can check your reality. When you find the problem and fix it, you will probably have success.

These steps are not so easy when dealing with abuse. You may probably assume you are always wrong and that is probably the lie you are being fed. You have to start to check your assumptions.

For Example, are you being berated by others in other parts of your life?

No?

Good.

Do you feel at ease when the abuser is not around?

Yes?

Good.

You have the beginning of an investigation. It may turn out that it is only ONE person who makes you miserable.

You have some choices to make.

  • Leave?
  • Stay with boundaries?
  • Stay and do nothing?

It’s up to you.

Always on your side,
Indrani G.

Listen to the audio version here:

Share This Article

Posted in

Related Posts

Grateful to Seth for jump starting my brain.

“On knowing what you’re doing. It’s pretty easy to know what you’re doing when you’re doing something that you’ve done before. Follow the path. It’s...
Read More about Grateful to Seth for jump starting my brain.

My dear sisters, you are not alone.

My dear sister, The end of October is here and that means Domestic Violence awareness month is over...AND I will still have you on my...
Read More about My dear sisters, you are not alone.

Can’t you take a joke?

Is the person asking a professional comedian? No? Then it’s probably not funny to anyone else but them. Tell them that you love and respect...
Read More about Can’t you take a joke?
Indrani-Goradia-logo-fav-white

Stay Connected!

Get the latest news from Indrani

!
!
Something went wrong. Please check your entries and try again.